Making Love

Making love, or having sex, can mean different things to different people. It can mean a man putting his penis into a woman’s vagina. Or other things, such as masturbating your partner, oral sex, or anal sex. There are many ways to have sexual pleasure.

Facts

An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away 

An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away 

Masturbation is very good for your physical and mental health. Here’s how: First, it is super pleasurable. If you’ve stroked into a tube sock, humped a pillow like a horny hare, taken hand or vibe to bits, or really enjoyed […]

What’s your favorite part about sex?

What’s your favorite part about sex?

Well, first it is totally normal for your partner to have different preferences. it depends on both of you and the attraction that you have for one another and communicating on what’s the difference between just having sex and making […]

Ngono kupigika freshi inahitaji?

Ngono kupigika freshi inahitaji?

Kufanya ngono ile imeweza ni ile ambayo haiumuzi masela na ukiwa unapiga gemu, basi piga kitu ukutumia mbinu poa na uwe macho iskuletee kero la kuchomeka au kuchoma mtu na gonjwa la zinaa au pia kukanyaga waya.

She is 17, can we have sex as long as she consents?

She is 17, can we have sex as long as she consents?

Hello Love Matters, I am an 18-year-old first-year college student and my girlfriend of 2 months is 17 years old. We love each other and while we are yet to have sex, we are very excited about our first time. I have heard that at anyone below 18 cannot consent to sex, is this true?

Have you ever tried pegging?

Have you ever tried pegging?

Ladies, have you ever slid a finger, or two, inside your man’s anus? How did he react? If you have never, maybe it’s time to experiment. Tell us how it goes. Do you see where I am going with this conversation? Anal play is a thing and if done right, it can take your sex game a notch higher. Pegging is one of the most common anal play and that is what we will talk about today.

Important hygiene tips before anal sex

Important hygiene tips before anal sex

Anyone can practice anal sex yet this type of sex is more common among a lot of gay and bisexual men. Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable but at times it can be very uncomfortable if one partner is paranoid about poop (feces).

Do women really orgasm from penetrative sex?

Do women really orgasm from penetrative sex?

I am a 26-year-old woman and have been consistently sexually active for the past 8 years. I love to experiment during sex and while I have had multiple clitoral orgasms, I have never experienced vaginal orgasms. Are vagina orgasms even real? I am the only one?  

7 tips for a perfect blow job

7 tips for a perfect blow job

If you want to blow your partner’s mind, blow them! Blow jobs are one of the best foreplay acts and they are pleasurable to the receiver and can be to the giver too!

Common sexual fantasies to try

Common sexual fantasies to try

Almost everyone has sexual fantasies, but only few people act on them. It’s possible that even though you fantasize about something like a threesome, you really wouldn’t want to try it in real life.

Dry orgasms: Orgasms without ejaculation

Dry orgasms: Orgasms without ejaculation

A dry orgasm is also known as orgasmic anejaculation and it happens during sex when a man climaxes but does not release any semen. A dry orgasm can be a temporary or permanent condition and while they are often not […]

5 common myths about consent debunked

5 common myths about consent debunked

Whether you’re in a committed, casual, or any type of relationship, consent is key for any sexual activity you engage in. It is very important to understand consent and practice it every time you engage in any sexual activity.

12 things to remember before first-time sex

12 things to remember before first-time sex

Before having sex for the first time, you may feel a range of emotions, which is completely normal. You may be nervous, scared, thrilled, excited, or anxious, and that’s totally expected. You may be unsure about what to expect. And […]

Top masturbation tips for men

Top masturbation tips for men

Masturbation is a healthy and safe way to explore your body and discover what makes you feel good. There are lots of ways for men and women to masturbate, get aroused and then orgasm. Women usually do it by rubbing their clitoris […]

Why does my vagina make farting sound?

Why does my vagina make farting sound?

You are having sex and then, BOOM! your vagina makes a farting sound. What will you do? Hide in shame? Stop to investigate the fart? Pretend like it wasn’t you and instead blame your partner? Laugh? Continue like nothing happened? […]

Sexual fantasies

Sexual fantasies

Sexual fantasies are completely normal. Some of them may seem weird, but just because you fantasise about something doesn’t mean you have to do it.

The hymen: what is it?

The hymen: what is it?

The hymen is a thin piece of skin that is part of a woman’s vulva. Its importance is mainly cultural, and many myths are associated with it.

Talking about porn

Talking about porn

There’s nothing wrong with masturbation and porn can be great, too. They can help us understand more about our own bodies, our likes and dislikes.

Is my partner a virgin?

Is my partner a virgin?

Many people think that you can tell whether someone is a virgin or not. However, this is a myth. The only way to know if someone is a virgin is by asking them!

Talking about sex

Talking about sex

Whether your relationship is casual or serious, it can always be difficult to bring up the topic of making love, especially when it comes to the when and the how.

His orgasms

His orgasms

When a man gets really turned on, he can have an orgasm – in other words, he can come, or climax.

Her orgasms

Her orgasms

When you get sexually aroused your vagina becomes wetter, which makes it smooth and slippery. With more stimulation, you could climax (orgasm).

First time sex: what to expect

First time sex: what to expect

When people talk about the ‘first time’, they usually mean the first time you have full intercourse. That’s what people mean by ‘losing your virginity’.

How to kiss

How to kiss

Kissing is usually the first thing you do when you fall in love. But how do you start? And when are you doing it right?